When is the right time to settle?

When is the right time to settle?

This is a great question.

It’s a fundamental question in life because we must settle at some point in life.

Do we settle because we have found him and her right?

Do we settle because our biological clock has ticked beyond the horizon or because we shave twice a day?

Do we settle I ask, because our relatives are worried that we have taken too long and the good ones are all gone? Remember the beautiful ones are not being born. Contraceptives, abortion and same sex marriages you know.

Do we settle because our parents have unfulfilled wish list that they want accomplished through us?

Do we settle because we are lonely and afraid of the dark?

 Do we settle because we found a demon and not the devil?

Do we settle because a saint has revisited our town and all the villagers bow down? 

Do we settle because they said she is beautiful with noon make up and handsome in the wallet?

Do we settle because we are sure or because we yearn to discover more with our partners? 

Perhaps I don’t know why you got married, one day may be you woke up and found a baby crying next to you.

May be you were introduced as an uncle one night and the following morning in the case before this court vs X and Y chromosomes,  you  are the father, and you are not the further.  Settle down, I meant further not father, just hold your horses.  I know that’s the reason why you will never settle down, because you are down already and not ready to give up the player lifestyle in you. Become quite, calm and orderly that’s settling down, forget the details.  

As for me and many out here we never settled down, we surrendered.

~By Njoroge wa Ngige~ 030516-0028